Nigerian crossdresser, Bayo, has a val message for everyone, and he sent it with a picture of him in a G-string. According to him, life is too short to care about what others think.
Here’s what he wrote:
“Life is too short to waste any amount of time wondering what other people think about you. In the first place , if they had better things going on in their lives, They wouldn’t have time to sit around and talk about you.
What’s important to me is not other people’s opinions to me, but what’s important to me is my opinion of myself.When you are different, sometimes you don’t see the millions of people who accept you for what you are.
All you notice is the person who doesn’t .Lately I have been getting lots of messages from judgmental people saying how much they don’t like me because they think am weird and am some even call me ugly ( buhahahahhahaha) but let me tell you something, you can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you but if you yourself don’t know it all of that doesn’t matter.
Every second that you spend on doubting your worth,Every moment that you use to criticise yourself is a second of your life waste, is a moment of your life thrown away .its not like you have forever, so don’t waste any of your seconds, don’t throw even one of your moments away.
I know I want to spend my life with a person who knows how to let things go, Who’s not full of hate, Who’s able to smile and be carefree and so that’s who I have to be.The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. How would your life be different if….. You stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinion .
Let today be the day you stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachements to the validation of others. As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if o try to force my desires on this person, Even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it and even though this person was me.
Today I call it “RESPECT” As I Began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow.Today I call it “MATURITY” As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance I am in the right place at the right time and everything happens at the exactly right moment So I could be calm today.
I call it “SELF CONFIDENCE” I no longer need to fear arguments, confrontation or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide and out of thee crashing new worlds are born.
Today I know “THAT Is LIFE”. Dare to love yourself as if you were a rainbow with gold at both ends. One of the greatest regret in life is being what others would want you to be rather than being yourself.Now U I want you to celebrate who you are in your deepest heart. Love yourself and the world will love you.
And to all those who call me ” Weird land Crazy, Cast your judgements Dummies, I am having FUN and you are welcome to Judge ME!”